I have lack of self confidence and I don’t get a way to create confidence in myself. If somebody says anything even as a joke, that thing remains as a burden on my mind and I keep on thinking about it. If I talk to somebody, then I regret that why did I say that? Do reply me, please.
(Anbreen, Lahore)
ANSWER:
For the rehabilitation of Self confidence, will power has to be mobilized again and again. In this way a person gets control on his physical and psychological activities, gradually. Keep on prinking in your mind that neither you would be inspired by anyone and nor you will take effect of such things. Don’t let those things to take place in your mind which psychologically cause inferiority complex. Doing this act after Morning Prayer i.e. Namaz-e-Fajar will help you to control your psychological and mental activities. Sit in comfortable manner and slowly inhale air through breath and when your chest is full then say
یَاوَدُوْدُ one time and release air. Repeat this act seven times and then blow on your heart. Don’t perform this act during periods.
I AM GET BORED:
I get bored of everything very early. Due to domination of moodiness I have to stop work. Firstly I don’t feel like to do any work and if I start I feel burden on myself, even the same happens during prayers. Physically I am weak, face is fed and stomach mostly remains upset. Tell me any Holy Word which proves as a blessing in these problems.
(Aainee, Rawalpindi)
ANSWER:
Pay attention towards your physical systems. Get yourself examined by a professional and specialist doctor and follow his instructions. In the early morning recite [SPACE FOR ARABIC TEXT] 100 times and blow on water and drink. Spiritually it is useful.
MIND REMAINS SLEEPY:
Recently I have taken the exam of F.A. Our domestic circumstances are uncongenial due to which I cannot concentrate. Mostly my mind remains sleepy and indulged in different thoughts. If I intend to do something I leave that thing without completion. Whatever I study it disappears from my mind very soon.
(Shoaib, Abbotabad)
ANSWER:
Walk barefooted on grass or on clay ground after Morning Prayer, at a comfortable and breezy place, if possible. During walk keep your mind free from thoughts and focus your mind on the thumb of left foot. Do this act for 10 to 15 minutes. After this, slowly take breaths and during breathing focus on breaths. You will get rid of mental divergence very soon.
STRANGE DREAM:
I have been dreaming strange dreams for last one year, by which I feel fear. Specially, thoughts about deaths come a lot. Regarding this situation, give me suggestion or commendations. Moreover, for the ease in difficulties a commendation was printed in a column that recite اَللہُ لَا اِلٰہَ اِلَّا ہُوَ الْحَیُّ الْقَیُّوْمُ 100 times after Namaz-e-Eisha till 90 days, kindly permit me this commendation.
(Rahila, Karachi)
ANSWER:
Try to have moderation and quaintness in your routine life and in your thoughts. For achieving this examine your routines and thoughts. Keep Sleeping, awaking and other needs in moderation. Prevent your mind to be indulged in leisure things, for example, needless doubts and paranoids, unnecessary anger and curiosity in others matters etc. The commendations, which you have mentioned, recite that. It not only will help you for ease in difficulties but also it will help you to have quaintness in thoughts. However, this should also be kept in mind that changing the thoughts by using will power is also a way.
DECEIVE IN BUSINESS:
A person took money from my brother for doing a work, but that work wasn’t done. Now neither he completes the work nor does he return the money. My brother has tumors in his body and he feels pain and never gets asleep at night.
(G, Peshawar)
ANSWER:
In business and matters there should be a written agreement along with consideration of all valid issues, so that this type of situations may be handled. Otherwise be prepared for such situations; practically involve some reputed and influenced persons in order to resolve the matter. Recite Ayat Ul Kursi 21 times, along with Darood Sharif 11 times in the beginning and at the end, after Namaz e Eisha. Continue this process for 90 days. For tumors, consult with a specialist doctor. In the morning, before sunrise recite یَاوَدُوْدُ 3 times and blow on water and drink it. Avoid red chili in food.
PROBLEMS AND TROUBLES:
I have been ruined by troubles and problems, circumstances are being worse day by day. If I start a business, I can’t manage the income and expenses. At last I searched for a job but couldn’t succeed in it as well. Guide me some blessed and effective Holy word.
(Abdul Shakoor, Multan)
ANSWER:
After Namaz e Fajar and Namaz e Eisha recite یَاحَیُّ یَاقَیُّومُ بِرَحْمَتِکَ اَسْتَغِیْثُ 41 times. Then pray to Almighty Allah and don’t be careless in practical efforts. In sha Allah situations will be better. Do help the deserved people as per your affordability.
FEAR IN DARKNESS:
It was last Ramadan, one night I was sitting after performing Prayer, I felt something varying in my senses and I felt as if I am going to die. Since then I am in the same situation, if I sit alone the fear increases. I can’t wake till late night and feel fear in darkness. My heart beat increases even on ordinary matters and I get angry a lot.
(Ghazala, Lahore)
ANSWER:
If you recite some commendation, give up. Just perform five times prayers and don’t recite anything besides this. Recite یَارَحِیْمُ 41 times and blow on one spoon of honey and have it, in the morning and evening. Use relatively less salt in the food and if it is possible walk on grass or on ground bare footed in the morning. In sha Allah all these feelings will be vanished.
BLOOD OVER AND OVER AGAIN:
It is the matter of our home. First thing is that mostly drops of blood are found in the home, apparently there seems no reason for it. Second thing is that every time one person of home remains sick, circumstances of house are also not good.
(Shaista, Bannu)
ANSWER:
Take small pieces of Frankincense and recite Surah Falaq 111 times and blow on the pieces. Take some pieces and burn these in the burning coals between Asar and Maghrib so that its smoke may spread in complete house. Keep the house clean and ventilated. All family members should take care of health and cleanliness. Don’t use fusty things, avoid the use of meat and don’t use salt in heavy quantity. Give charity punctually. All family members should recite Surah Falaq one time in the morning and blow on water and should drink that water. Frankincense should be burnt at least up to 40 days.
SHADOWS OF FEAR:
I was 11 years old, one day I got unconscious and my body was stuck and a little spit discharged. Doctors suggested me a tablet after examination and I have been using that tablet so far. Even though I feel shadows of fear in my mind nowadays, sometimes I feel dizzy and become rave. I look forward for a Holy word along with physical treatment.
(Shahnaz Ahmed, Gujrat)
ANSWER:
Take medicine regularly as per instructions of the doctor. Stand on the ground barefooted in the early morning. Somebody should recite یَابَدِیْعَ الْعَجَائِبِ بِالْخَیْرِ یَابَدِیْعُ یَاحَفِیْظُ and blow on hands and wipe hands on your body from head to feet and then touch hands to the ground. Repeat this act for 7 times. In the morning, you should recite یَاحَیُّ یَاقَیُّوْمُ 21 times and blow on water and drink it. May Allah grant you complete cure!
RECLUSE:
I am a simple girl and I don’t have the quality of being clever, it would be worth saying that I have lack of intelligence. Neither I have a friend nor does anyone want to be my friend. I don’t have understanding with anyone in my home, I have become Recluse. I have stopped going out of house and don’t talk to anyone a lot lest I utter something wrong. People taunt me a lot but I can’t reply them. I look forward for any act to change myself.
(Aalia, Lahore)
ANSWER:
Concentrate towards building and grooming your personality in such a way that remove all those thoughts from your mind which cause inferiority complex. Accept happily, whatsoever you are! And participate in all the activities of life and remove this fear that what the people would say about your this act or you don’t have the capability of anything. Create this thing in yourself by your will power that whatsoever people say you won’t take effect of that. When you accept these thoughts then there will be no hurdle left behind in yourself and you could lend a comfortable life. Lie on your back while sleeping and shut your eyes and sleep while reciting یَاحَفِیْظُ. By this recitation the treasure of energy in yourself will be as much increased that with the help of it you will overcome your mental activities. Keep on doing the same for many days.
(Muhammad Rehan, Khanewal)
HURDLES AND HURDLES:
I am married and father of one child, I got married three years back but still I am jobless, whatsoever business I start it doesn’t complete. It seems that there is an unknown power which comes in the way of my success. For two times, I intended to go abroad but the process was unsuccessful in the end even though initially all the things were going fine. There comes hurdle in my every work and work doesn’t complete. I started an import export firm but couldn’t succeed in it as well and consecutively I had to bear loss. I am very much frustrated and don’t feel like to do any work and I keep on thinking all the day and lie down at home.
ANSWER:
Take start with an ordinary job and get experience of practical life and business matters, in this way your understanding will be increased. Gradually start better and big business and sometimes starting big business since beginning cause loss. In sha Allah gradually you will get success. Give up frustration and take steps in practical life, keep on reciting یَاحَیُّ یَاقَیُّوْمُ all the time.
